We are living in a wonderful, but insincere and subtle world. Sometimes it’s better to hold your tongue and just smile to the people you’re talking with. You don’t have to behave like James Bond, but you should be a bit cunning and bright enough for the sake of your happiness and prosperity.
On the one hand, human curiosity drives people to explore and understand many truths and secrets of life. On the other hand, dark-hearted personalities may use their knowledge and the info about other people to bring somebody down. If you’re too talkative by nature, you need to know what to say and what to keep back from others. I can state with assurance that the most dangerous and taboo theme is your life problems. Your problems are your own and telling everyone about your failures is a bad idea, because you can become a Ms. Negativity for your friends. Positive and joyous people don’t yearn to get drawn into somebody’s issues, because it’s not their pair of shoes. Bad people are often glad to see drowning in your problems and tears. They can also turn your misery against you and your family.
I know that my life is my burden and if somebody is insistently interested in my life, I try to ignore their questions and use jokes. Humor and sarcasm help me handle the situation and remain polite with negative people. Here are 5 things you should never discuss with people.
1. Your secrets
What is the meaning of the word ‘secret’? I think that secret is a piece of news, definite truth or information known to a limited number of people. Every single person in this world has at least one secret. I know that keeping secrets is a challenging thing, because not everyone can resist the temptation to share interesting information about somebody or something. I try to let only dearest and nearest into my little ordinary secrets. I’m sure that my family will never play a double game with me. When it comes to top secrets, I try to hide the forbidden info from everyone. I won’t have a good night’s sleep, if I know that the top secrets of my soul are open to a large number of people and enemies.
2. Private life
Private life is a sacred and precious thing. I’m not a superstitious person, but I believe that the power of human feelings and emotions can affect my private life. No one likes to be condemned for their actions, words and interests. Nowadays youth unconsciously provokes others to discuss and criticize their private life. They post personal info, photos and videos on different social media websites. Millions of people have an opportunity to observe the details of each others’ personal life.
Social networks are the biggest source of lies and misinformation. Plus your enemies can turn it to their advantage. They may slander you or your dearest people that is extremely dangerous for your relationship. There’s no need to delete or block your social network accounts. Just try to add fewer photos that make your private life accessible to both good and bad personalities.
Do you like when others ask you about your incomes? I think, no. This is pointless question. This question is usually asked by those who like to count the money of others. If you want to have stable incomes, then try to be less boastful. People often cannot overcome a deep feeling of envy when they see somebody’s welfare. Malignant envy can exert big negative influence on your luck.
If you’re in the money, you should learn to resist people’s envy. The art of being rich is not only the ability to make money, but the skill to save it and hide your incomes from ill-wishers. Try to behave naturally and speak less about your savings and goods. It will serve as a shield from the dark energy of envious people.
4. Your heart
Human heart is a very vulnerable and frail thing. Only one careless word or action can seriously hurt it. You should be careful while talking to other people. Your desire to pour out your soul can help you get rid of negativity and find strength and inspiration to live. But, every bean has its back. Your enemies can get to know all your weak points and miseries. I hope you realize that no good will come of it. There can be no doubt that your opponents will find a wonderful opportunity to rub salt into your wounds and make your life more difficult for you.
If you want to share your pain with somebody else, you need to be sure that the interlocutor means you well. Openness and sincerity require a high level of assurance and confidence. When my worries and anxiety are lying like a heavy weight on my heart, I go to the church and bare my soul to the God. He’s the one who’ll never criticize or condemn my life.
5. Future goals
Every person in the world has certain dreams, plans and goals. Many communicative personalities fancy discussing their future plans with people they don’t know well. What for to tell somebody about your dream? You’d better reach your goals without announcing and sharing them with others.
It’s scientifically proved that garrulous people have fewer chances to achieve desirable results than those who tend to keep their future projects and ideas in secret. I think that your intentions shouldn’t become public, but remain personal. When you fulfill the task, you’ll have a nice occasion to boast your achievements. I know that it’s also challenging and harmful to suppress the desire to announce your plans, but the game is worth the candle. It will help you concentrate on your thoughts and make you motivated enough to accomplish them.
Communication with people is a good thing, but it has its advantages and disadvantages. Unfortunately, there’re lots of crafty people who dream to stab you in the back at the earliest opportunity. Wise people try not to give occasion to their enemies. They keep their life in secret and avoid quality chats with people they don’t trust. You should also know that your tongue can be your enemy. I hope these pieces of advice will help you make a resolute step toward success. Do you keep your private life in secret? What other things we should keep back from people? Share your thoughts, please.
- 2016/04/13(水) 13:13:29|
When spring break the spell of the winter, came to the north of the frozen world, people can't feel the warmth, but really have rang the bell of spring season.
The north spring tender feelings you will never understand, don't want to to the ChunYan whistle, a profusion of garden flowers, you just know, but spring is waved farewell.
Want to embrace the spring here Dream beauty pro
, then go with me to read the spring rain!
When the first spring rain was falling, let us feel the spring tender feelings together. Close your eyes, hands reach out, snow and spring rains into palms together, cool but not like freezing in winter. Little voice slowly into, that is the spring's remarks, soft warm the fabric of frozen earth. Cx gradually melting in winter that finally proud heart no longer struggle, a hint of a retreat in the spring rain.
Spring is a loving mother, and the spring rain is admonished her gentle. Spring's footsteps slowly, always tolerant towards an object of ice and snow, a another shower Dream beauty pro
, gently soft soft melt, hillside field cx behind the house, with the love of mother to child and the land.
Wisper, trickling rain, this is a mother's love, in the wake of the children. Seeds in the soil heard her voice, and eager to open the quilt like a child, go to the sun. Wisper, trickling rain, rain of the soil moist as soft as cotton.
On a sunny morning, casual look, I didn't know when to have full of roadside green, tender green shoots on the no soil. They vied with one another with the sun, bathed in the spring breeze, their rapid growth.
"Rumble" thunderbolt, at first, it is a spring rain, beating in the tree canopies of the boom, pour in the emerald paddy fields. It was a cold spring rain, all life cheered the spring rain, Dream beauty pro
at this time of the spring rain is no longer "moistens everything silently", she is telling a passionate love for life.
If you in enjoying the spring rain, all the way in that tree full of cherry blossoms, you must have heard, playing in the spring of life movement; If you all the way in watching the spring rain, so the look is the mud all over the ground, you must have smell, spring brewing fragrance of life.
When spring came, rain possessions on the great river north and south. Compared to the south of the four spring-like, after the spring rain in the north is light colour ink landscape painting, as those mr.zhou chun, apricot blossom, Dream beauty pro
cherry blossoms every bit in return for the grace of the spring rain.
- 2015/08/12(水) 12:20:07|
- Dream beauty pro
I want a have reason,
If you have a warm wood is cold in the furnace,
I would like to turn into silent furnace,
Even if life relatively speechless,
Only have the punctual warmth Dream beauty pro
That is the reason I close to you.
If you care about is the stars in the dark night,
I would like to turn into the silence of the tree,
Even if only ever far,
Just want to feel the tacit understanding of each other.
That is the reason I see you.
If you the blessing of the sea on the voyage,
I would like to turn into waiting stone Dream beauty pro
Regret waiting even a few who will,
Just a touch to rub shoulders with the beautiful,
That is my after your reasons.
I need an excuse Dream beauty pro
A closer to your reason,
But I was not at all.
See furnace burning wood, see stars dim, the sail set sail.
I have no language HKUE amec
No reason to the language of the organization.
- 2015/07/15(水) 15:45:38|
- Dream beauty pro
If you stop the night cold. Leaving only meimei starlight. The night scenery of the roadside whether there will be more people appreciate. If stop life regret. And there will be many willing to be tempted of Dream beauty pro
The night is not black night is not cold. Only the night a bit starlight more street view street view it instead of the stars. Starlight buried street view. Is too beautiful. Or a street too bright. In street view and against the background of the stars the night also is so clear,,,,,,
Life stopped regret stop at that moment. You will receive it? Received signal it to stop. At that moment it tells all. I will stop at the moment, so the regret of life, the life without regret Dream beauty pro
, we will to buy it? We would like to for a heartbeat? Life without regret, there must be a clear sky? I think I can say...
In the dark of the night, I want to see now, I don't care about it, how many stars, how many street view, I care about is just at the moment of the night. The night is very beautiful, the night at the moment, there is a clear beauty.
Life, I will live, may now, life would be a little regret, but it is precisely because life is a little regret, only let us life seemed so special so real, and those who now regret, may be in the near future, HKUE ENG
will be better.
After all there are tempted for things happen for a long time, now the night, life now, don't miss the past, not to think, want to go now, so very good
The night was clear and sunny, the night life, life tempted.
- 2015/07/08(水) 16:45:16|
A young man died after a hole he dug on a Northern California beach collapsed and trapped him in the sand for at least five minutes, authorities said Tuesday.
The man dug a roughly 10-foot-deep hole at Francis State Beach and was standing in it around 5:30 p.m. Monday when the sand started caving in around him, California Department of Forestry and Fire Protection Capt. Jonathan Cox said.
About 30 people, including the man's friends and bystanders, frantically dug with their hands, buckets and other improvised tools to expose his head. They were able to free his head in about five minutes, just as firefighters arrived at the scene, Cox said.
"When they got there, they discovered he was unconscious," he said.
Cox said paramedics managed to open his airways while about 30 firefighters, aided by the bystanders, used shovels and other equipment to pull out his body.
Rescuers extricated him in about 35 minutes and tried to revive him, but he died at the scene, Cox said.
The man who died at the beach about 30 miles southwest of downtown San Francisco was identified by the San Mateo County Coroner's office as Adam Pye, 26, of San Lorenzo.
He dug the hole on a campground area of the beach, about 10 to 15 feet from the water line, Cox said.
- 2014/07/24(木) 10:52:39|